18/06/2009

Selamat Pengantin Baru

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Alhamdulillah. Syukur ke atas Allah atas segala nikmat yang dikurniakan kepada kita semua. Semoga dengan nikmat-nikmat itu dapat meningkatkan lagi ketaqwaan kita kepada Allah. InsyaAllah. Dan jangan kita lupa, setiap nikmat itu datang bersama tanggungjawabnya.

Cuti musim panas sudah menjelma. Bagi kebanyakan pelajar-pelajar di UK ini, kesempatan ini diambil sepenuhnya dengan pulang ke tanah air untuk melepaskan rindu kepada keluarga, saudara mara, guru-guru, rakan-rakan dan juga makanan. Sudah tidak sabar rasanya untuk pulang ke Malaysia.

Namun, di sebalik perkara-perkara di atas, tidak terlupa juga akan perkara yang lain. Sesetengah dari mereka pulang untuk melangsungkan perkahwinan. Kahwin awal sudah tidak asing lagi bagi pelajar-pelajar di luar negara secara keseluruhannya. Namun, tidaklah bermakna saya pun akan berkahwin pada cuti musim panas kali ini. Hehe. Belum tiba masanya lagi. Tahun depan mungkin? Tunggu dan lihat sajalah.

Saya pasti semua orang dari kita hendak berkahwin. Dan saya juga pasti semua orang dari kita inginkan pasangan yang baik. Kalau yang perempuan inginkan calon suami yang beriman, baik, soleh dan sebagainya. Bagi lelaki pula inginkan calon isteri yang solehah, sopan santun, lemah lembut dan juga sebagainya. Namun sedarkah kita, bahawa dalam Al-Quran ada menyebut mengenai pasangan suami isteri ini.

Tak percaya? Jom kita lihat terjemahan Surah An-Nur ayat 26

"Perempuan-perempuan yang keji untuk laki-laki yang keji, dan laki-laki yang keji untuk perempuan-perempuan yang keji pula, sedangkan perempuan-perempuan yang baik untuk laki-laki yang baik, dan laki-laki yang baik untuk perempuan-perempuan yang baik pula. Mereka itu bersih dari apa yang dituduhkan orang. Mereka memperoleh ampunan dan rezeki yang mulia (syurga)"

Haa. Jelas kan? Semua orang boleh faham dengan sekali baca sahaja. Allah sudah menggariskan dalam ayat di atas. Seperti yang saya katakan tadi, semua orang inginkan pasangan-pasangan yang baik.

Jadi, apa perlu buat?

Rasanya semua orang tahu kot. Nak dapat pasangan yang baik, kita pun mestilah baik.

Baik macam mana?

Dengan melakukan segala suruhan Allah dan meninggalkan segala larangannya.

Habis jadi baik semata-mata sebab nak kahwin?

Rujuk balik Hadith 1 dalam kitab Hadith 40

"Daripada Amirul Mukminin Abu Hafsin 'Umar ibn al-Katthab r.a. beliau berkata: Aku mendengar Rasulullah SAW bersabda:

Bahawa sesungguhnya setiap amalan itu bergantung kepada niat, dan bahawa sesungguhnya bagi setiap orang apa yang dia niatkan. Barangsiapa yang hijrahnya menuju kepada Allah dan RasulNya, maka hijrahnya kepada Allah dan RasulNya. Barangsiapa yang hijrahnya kerana dunia yang dia mahu mencari habuannya, atau kerana seorang perempuan yang dia mahu kahwininya, maka hijrahnya ke arah perkara yang ditujuinya itu."

Jelas kan?

Jadi, terpulanglah kepada kita untuk ikut ataupun tidak. Yang menyesal nanti kita, bukan orang lain. Hidup kalau berpandukan Al-Quran dan Hadith sangat-sangatlah sempurna. Tinggal lagi kita je nak ikut ataupun tidak.

Di kesempatan ini, saya ingin mengucapkan Selamat Pengantin Baru kepada sesiapa sahaja yang akan melangsungkan perkahwinan semasa cuti musim panas ini. Semoga perkahwinan kamu semua diberkati dan dirahmati Allah. InsyaAllah.

Selamat mengemudi bahtera pelayaran rumahtangga!



"Islah Nafsak, Wad'u Ghairak".

25 comments:

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shah said...

wah2, penulisan yg jelas n padat..
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abah said...

allahuakhbar....lain nada kali ni..lepas tarbiyyah mana boleh terus posting hal kahwin..kurang tepatlah rukun posting.Iffah cakap belajar dulu..dan kerja dulu..abah cakap, macam Rasulullah buat, business dulu barang dagangan Siti Khadijah)..tapi kalu dah nak sangat dan ketentuan jodoh..tak ada masalah..

FYI hari lahir iffah 23 June ni...iffah cakap angah beli PSP color pink ( kalu murah dan kalu angah ada rezeki lebih)..ha ha kata iffah..rumah kita buah rambutan lebat kali ini..1 minggu lagi dijangka masaklah kalu pokok rambutan kahwin..kalu rambutan dok kahwin mungkin 2nminggu lagi masaklah..danlah angah balik baby cakap...

baby cakap lama lagi ke angah nak balik...abah ckap bila rambutan masak angah balikla...ha ha

Alhamdulillah mungkin rezeki tahun ni murah sikit..rambutan ada buah, kelapa pun lebat buah, durian pun ada buah...

angah said...

hehe..posting kawin ini untuk member2 angah yang nk kawin..angah lambat lagi..tunggu along dulu..hehe..bereh2..balik ni makang buoh je la..haha

el nino said...

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